The problem with the internet (and even texting for that matter), is that you cannot tell the TONE of what someone is saying. 90% of communication is non-verbal, so when we don't have that part, all we can do is project our own assumptions on the 10% that's left. (ie: what we read in the black and white words in front of us)...and you know what they say about assumptions.
In any case, before any more mud/s**t gets flung, this "discussion" unfortunately will be closed. I apologize for deleting everyone's posts after putting in the time and thought to write.
For future reference, any posts I see that are outright name calling or inflammatory will be deleted. Unfortunately, I am a regular guy with a regular work schedule that can't monitor this board 24/7. So, please, everyone, lets be adults. No more direct/indirect name calling, and taking things personally.
Confucius say "Man who fly plane upside down have crack up"